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you single and looking for a relationship? Ever feel like you're the
only normal one looking? Well, you are not alone so don't feel
bad! In fact, the United States is full to the brim with singles-
86 million adult singles to be more precise.
According to the 2000 United
States Census, there are unnumbered divorced/widowed/never-been-married
Americans eligible for the dating game or ready to get back into
the game.
So you are 25 to 29? You have 9 million unattached peers to choose
from! You're 35 to 44? You've got 13 million singles just like you!
You're 55 to 64? You have 2.3 million contemporaries of your same
age. Singles make up 42 percent of the workforce, 40 percent of
home buyers and 35 percent of voters.
Believe it or not, American culture remains very marriage-centric.
Almost 75 percent of Americans get married by age 35, 95 percent
by 65.
Recent data from the United
States Census found that among households headed by a person
who is 45 or older, 1.2 million contain two adults who are not related
or married to each other. That represents a dramatic increase from
1995, when just 736,000 of such households contained two unmarried
adults.
There are some dating obstacles that are unique to single women:
They live longerwhich is a medical blessing but a relationship
curse. While the differences are relatively minor for those ages
55 through 64, when there are 92 men for every 100 women, they get
more dramatic as men die and women thrive. In the 65 through 74
age group, there are 82 men for every 100 women. And after 75, the
ratio drops to 53 men for every 100 women.
Over 70 million adults in the United States are single and probably
looking for love. The Census
Bureau statistics show that people are choosing to marry less
frequently, or to marry later, than in past generations.
Way back in 1727, a lonely spinster named Helen Morrison became
the first woman to place a "Lonely Hearts" ad in a newspaper,
the Manchester Weekly Journal. The result: the mayor of Manchester
committed her to a mental institution.
The online portion of the dating services industry makes up one
third of the total revenues with $304 million in 2002. The target
demographic for these services are the 83 million Americans that
are between 19 and 45 and single. They have received a significant
increase in the number of single women in their thirties and forties
searching for a connection through a very impersonal medium. This
trend has been on the rise since September 11th, an event which
made people realize how important life is and how personal attention
can ad to your life. That may be why almost 40% of frequent users
are already married. 2-3% of Internet users visit these sites and
60-70% of those say they have made long-lasting friendships from
their encounters.
Of the 97 million Americans who are 45 or older, almost 40 percent36.2
millionare single and on the hunt, according to the United
States Census Bureau.
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Over seventeen (17) million people browsed online personal ads
last year and 2 and a half million people have paid for online personals.
Speed dating puts together a group of men and women who spend an
evening taking turns mixing and mingling (meeting everyone of the
opposite sex.) The Each person spends only a minute with every potential
match. Then, if two individuals hit it off within those sixty seconds,
the two can exchange phone numbers or get contact information from
event organizers. Speed dating offers people the chance to meet
a number of new singles quickly and safely in a public environment.
Most speed dating organizations charge between $20 and $40.
67 percent of Americans with access to the Internet believe that
cyberspace isn't a good place to meet singles whereas 24 percent
say it is.
Almost 33% of single American woman in their 40s through 60s who
are dating are going out with younger men. With men, 66% said that
they were dating younger women.
When asked about having sex on the first date, a mere 2% of single
women approved, while 20% of men were all for it.
60% of women and 45% of men said they hadn't had sex in the past
six months.
When asked whether the pursuit of a sexual relationship was the
main reason for dating, 11% of men and only 2% of women said that
sex was the primary motive.
In a recent poll, 8% of both male and female participants said
they were dating in order to find someone to marry. 9% said they
were seeking a partner to live with.
30% of singles reported major difficulty in finding dates. A significant
number were trying mixers or experimenting with online dating services.
- 1 in 8 chance that a first date will call you for a second
date after 24 hours have passed.
- $201 is the average amount that men spend on dates per month.
- 17% is the likelihood that a date set up by a friend is going
to work out.
- 79 percent of men will take 15 minutes on a first date to
make up their mind whether or not to see the person again.
- The average number of first dates for a single professional
in the past year is 8.
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